Can a man and a woman be "just friends"?

Can a man and a woman be 'just friends'?

“When Harry Met Sally” and “Hum Tum” pondered the question can a man and a woman be just friends. Is this possible without the physical aspect entering into the relationship? Does platonic love exist? Do you think a man and a woman can be great friends without some inherent chemistry binding them?"
: extract from a renowned newspaper column

Man-woman, platonic love, relationship --- words that every young mind give a thought after. At least I do think so. May be I’m right, may be not. But ever since I have started understanding what it’s actually, I have just thought of one thing, and that’s I should be faithful to the one I’m at last settled with. Though I’ve got several opportunities of losing my virginity, but the very thought about my dream love have compelled me to get out of the very thoughts of such a venture.

From the day I started to realize that I’m a young now, I’ve found me with waist of 36+. And over that, I wanted to make all those people, who have deprived me of my rights at school, realize their mistakes. This very thought drove me for my target.

Now over the last two years when success have hardly touched me I was really starting to feel that maybe I’ve made blunders and I should have made full out of those moments, sometimes referred to as golden days of youth. But my limits of tolerance didn’t crossed levels of frustration. Thank God for your power gave me to preserve my sanity.

Sometime back read the book “Interpretation of Dreams”, by Sigmund Freud, and got highly influenced by it. So started believing that, “from the very childhood, every action of man is targeted for SEX”. Then questioned myself again and again, what have I done? How do I justify all my actions? There are several other actions for which can’t be explained by this Freudian philosophy. So got my own philosophy, an extended version of Freud,“every action of man, right from his childhood is for SEX and SECURITY”. With this I could satisfy all my actions then, all those which I remember. But change is the law of nature and it happened. There was an advent of a catastrophic event in my life, around 10 months from now and I couldn’t explain my actions and thoughts with the morals and philosophy I was following then.

Let’s stop here but soon will write about this change.